I would like to share my realistic dream. About a month after one of my best friends past away I had this dream it started like this. My best friend and I were driving in his old car with the music blasting. He would just look at me and smile or just nod. He reached from his ash tray and passed me a smoke and we smoked together like we used to do. We pulled up to this place that seemed like a club there were tons of people outside but noone had a face just a black shadow for a face. As we approached the place everyone starts greeting him. Even as we walked in the club people were coming up to him and greeting him like it was his birthday. We grabbed drinks and tapped our glasses together. Then hit the dance floor and started dancing with some chicks like we used to do but the whole time I want to talk to him and never actually get a moment to ask him anything cause it's so crowded and everyone is greeting us but still NO faces. As we left the club everyone was standing outside talking I could hear all the conversations but still no faces. We walk to the car and get in as we begin driving he again blast the music. Now am anxiuos to say something and so I look at him. He looks at me and I start to say "aren't you dead". I woke up saying the word dead. Very strange but very real. I feel I was invited to some kind of death celebration. I am often visited in my dreams but cannot remember what's said to me or I just remember one key word or number but when I try to speak I wake up. I am sleeing but conscious of all my decisions so at times I try not to speak to avoid ruining the dream....

Something tells me that this wasn't a dream exactly. I think that you were invited to a bit of a celebration shortly after your friend died but didn't recall it until about a month later in your dream. The thing that leads me to believe that is that you didn't see the faces in your dream which tends to suggest that you weren't paying much attention to faces at the time of the experience.

<3Hanna<3

Do you mean like I went to any party after he died and it's just my mind associating the two or I was actually there at the celebration of his death and my mind is reminding me of where I been through dream state. I'm a lil confused?

I think you were influenced by your friends death. Not that it's not possible to come in touch with him in your dreams, but i had some similar dreams to yours, after a beloved person of mine died.

(07-26-2009 04:20 AM)Barghest Wrote:  I think you were influenced by your friends death. Not that it's not possible to come in touch with him in your dreams, but i had some similar dreams to yours, after a beloved person of mine died.

I would really like to hear about your dream. I have only had this dream once.

Thank you for sharing that; I have had very similar experiences. Actually, I have documented 48 typed pages of my most memorable ones. I have no doubt our loved-ones visit us.

My deceased Granny has visited me astrally a few times; it was the most beautiful experience you could ever imagine; however, it was the 'feeling of love and total peace & happiness' that I remember most...I had 'dual projections' ~ where I was aware of both being there and here at the same time; it was amazing. By the way, there are no words in the dictionary to describe how beautiful it is...